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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v4.1.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Tue, 13 May 2008 21:50:09 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Journal</title><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/</link><description></description><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v4.1.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>I Miss Sierra, Too!</title><category>Writing Life</category><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 22:54:07 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/5/8/i-miss-sierra-too.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1823815</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p><p>The day the first Sierra Lavotini novel, The Miracle Strip, came out...&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;<a title="picturesscanned0001.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=picturesscanned0001.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/picturesscanned0001.jpg" /></a><a title="picturesscanned0001.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=picturesscanned0001.jpg"> </a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>About two months ago I started this blog so that the people who read my novels would have a way of finding out more about me, my writing and the writing process in general.&nbsp; An unexpected surprise has been the upsurge in mail I've been getting about my Sierra Lavotini &quot;Strip&quot; series.&nbsp; The support is so wonderful and so deeply appreciated!&nbsp; </p><p>When Tom (see his comment below) wrote me today and asked if anyone else was wondering about Sierra, I thought it might be a good idea to share a few of the lovely notes I've received.&nbsp; He also wanted a bit more of &quot;Landing Strip,&quot; which made me think maybe I ought to post a page of some of my current Works in Progress, too.&nbsp; What do you think?</p><p>In the meantime...here are those comments-&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Tom says:&nbsp;</p><p>Subject: Bring Back Sierra, PLEASE!!!<br />Message: Ms Bartholomew: I have just  finished re-reading the original set (you'll pardon the expression)of Strip  books...I have also just finished reading your So, About Sierra blog...<br />I  don't know how many people, if any, have been asking for the return of Ms  Lavotini, but I am definitely in the class picture...<br />I am sure that you can  extend upon your paragraph in that blog...at least, I hope so...Come on,  Nancy...It's been too long...PLEASE!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>From Robin:</p><p>Subject: sierra lavotini<br />Message: Hi,&nbsp; I just found the sierra series and  plowed through them at record speed.&nbsp; I love her life and now I am left hanging  not knowing who moose really is.&nbsp; Any idea when Landing strip may be published  or is that not ever going to happen?<br /></p><p>From Cindy:</p><p>Subject: sierra<br />Message: Thank you for sharing Sierra with us. She is  absolutely one of my favorite characters, she's just a riot. I hope one day soon  I'll see her on the bookshelves again.<br /><br />From Jennifer-</p><p>Subject: Your Cheatin Heart<br />Message: I just finished reading Your Cheatin  Heart &amp; loved it so much I ordered Stand By Your Man.&nbsp; Is there any other  books that go with those?&nbsp; You're an amazing author.&nbsp; I can't wait to read more  of your books.&nbsp; Please let me know about the series.&nbsp; Gotta read them  all....<br /></p><p>From Julie-</p><p>Subject: SIERRA #5<br />Message: What is Sierra's book #5 called?<br />Has it been  published?<br />I love the Sierra series.&nbsp; I think St. Martins press sucks!!</p><p>&nbsp;From Carol-</p><p>I also own all the Stella's and the Sophie.&nbsp; Thanks for making me laugh.&nbsp; My  husband loves Sierra too.&nbsp; I hope St. Martin's comes to their senses.&nbsp; Could we  start a writing campaign to get them to see reason?<br /><br />Carol<br /></p><p>From JJ-</p>Subject: best writer ever<br />Message: Thank you for returning my e mail...Please  tell me you are writing another Sierra Lavotini mystery..the last one&nbsp; (Strip  Poker) left me wondering what happens next...I know that's&nbsp; what it was supposed  to do..Please let me know what you are writing..and when it is coming  out........jj<br /><br /><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>From Michelle-</p><p>&nbsp;Subject: what happens to sierra?????<br />Message: ok i just discovered your strip  series and i am dying to know what happens to sierra after the last book.&nbsp;&nbsp; when  can we expect the next book or is the series done?&nbsp; what happens after uncle  moose calls her?</p><p><a title="IMG_1309.JPG" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/33435297@N00/2386780214/">   <img style="width: 257px; height: 386px;" src="http://static.flickr.com/3119/2386780214_c95e0c868b_d.jpg" />&nbsp; </a><br /></p><p>From Joe-</p><p>&nbsp;Subject: Sierra Lavotini<br />Message: Any chance that Sierra might come back in  another story?<br />I really enjoyed reading your stories about  her.<br />Thanks.</p><p>&nbsp;From Kim-</p>Message: Hi, I just started reading your books and I am hope you are going to do  another Sierra Lavotini book. I just finish this last one in two days!<br />I just  order some more of your books on amazon.<br /><br /><p>&nbsp;</p><p>From Rachael-&nbsp;</p><p>Subject: Your books..<br />Message: Hello Nancy, <br />My name is Rachael and I am a  huge fan of your Sierra Lavotini Series. I was very upset to see there aren't  anymore books out in this series. When will a new book by you be coming out? Are  you still writing? If you have time to write me back, I would be so happy. I  just would love to know what is going on with your books and such.  Thanks.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>From Sheila-</p><div id="1f04" class="ArwC7c ckChnd">      <div> <div>I can't get enough of Sierra Lavotini.&nbsp; I am as addicted to Sierra as  I am Stephanie Plum.&nbsp; Will there ever be more Sierra Lavotini books?&nbsp;  </div></div> </div><div style="display: none;" class="FL1GFc"><div class="AG5mQe RRKCwe"><img class="eChx3e UFDhhb" src="http://mail.google.com/mail/images/cleardot.gif" /></div><div class="YrSjGe ckChnd"><div class="ObUWHc hj2SD"><table class="BwDhwd"><tbody><tr><td class="zyVlgb XZlFIc" style="width: auto;"><span class="lHQn1d KaaYad"><img class="eChx3e QgQaBc" src="http://mail.google.com/mail/images/cleardot.gif" /></span><span class="JDpiNd"><img style="width: 16px; height: 16px;" class="Jx04sb QrVm3d" id="upi" name="upi" src="http://mail.google.com/mail/images/cleardot.gif" /></span><span class="EP8xU" style="color: rgb(0, 104, 28);">Sheila Haughn</span><br /><br /></td><td class="zyVlgb XZlFIc"><table class="K9osId"><tbody><tr><td><div class="IUCKJe bWGucb">Who is the publisher? I want to send them an e-mail. They must be crazy to no...</div><br /><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><br /></td><td class="i8p5Ld"><div class="XZlFIc"><span id="1f1k" class="rziBod" title="Tue, May 6, 2008 at 11:24 AM">May 6 (3 days ago)</span> </div><br /><br /></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div><div class="ExShKe" style="display: none;"><div class="AG5mQe RRKCwe"><img class="eChx3e UFDhhb" src="http://mail.google.com/mail/images/cleardot.gif" /></div><div class="YrSjGe ckChnd"><div class="ObUWHc rOkvff"><table class="BwDhwd"><tbody><tr><td class="zyVlgb XZlFIc"><span class="lHQn1d KaaYad"><img class="eChx3e QgQaBc" src="http://mail.google.com/mail/images/cleardot.gif" /></span><span class="JDpiNd"><img style="width: 16px; height: 16px;" class="Jx04sb QrVm3d" id="upi" name="upi" src="http://mail.google.com/mail/images/cleardot.gif" /></span><span class="EP8xU" style="color: rgb(0, 104, 28);">Sheila Haughn</span><span class="bWGucb">Loading...</span><br /><br /></td><td class="i8p5Ld"><div class="XZlFIc"><span id="1f0c" class="rziBod" title="Tue, May 6, 2008 at 11:24 AM">May 6 (3 days ago)</span> </div><br /><br /></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div><div class="ObUWHc qNeRme ckChnd"><br /></div>       <div>Who is the publisher?&nbsp; I want to send them an e-mail.&nbsp;&nbsp;They  must be crazy to not want more Sierra.&nbsp;&nbsp;Your books are every bit as  good as Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum&nbsp;series!&nbsp; Your publisher is  sitting on a gold mine.</div><div>&nbsp;<a title="IMG_0941.JPG" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/33435297@N00/2385953333/"> <br /></a><a title="IMG_0941.JPG" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/33435297@N00/2385953333/"> </a></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div><a title="IMG_1315.JPG" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/33435297@N00/2385949151/">   <img src="http://static.flickr.com/3231/2385949151_30249d5387_d.jpg" />&nbsp; </a><br /></div><div>&nbsp;</div><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1823815.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Telling the Truth and Writing Fiction</title><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 23:56:51 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/5/7/telling-the-truth-and-writing-fiction.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1820342</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>&#160;</p>  <p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/TellingtheTruthandWritingFiction_118B9/080.jpg?fileId=1550700"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="396" alt="080" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/TellingtheTruthandWritingFiction_118B9/080_thumb.jpg?fileId=1550701" width="297" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>Around these parts, it's best not to ask too many questions.&#160; After all, the cabin lies in the heart of &quot;The Moonshine Capital of the World.&quot;</p>  <p>I was reading T.J Hazen's article on the history of Sloan's Mill the other night and found the tale of Bill Underwood.&#160; It seems Mr. Underwood moved into the miller's house across the road from the mill and quickly irritated his neighbors with his constant inquiries into their activities.</p>  <p>When they'd had enough of Bill's nosiness, they snuck up on his steam tractor and blew up its boiler.&#160; Unfortunately, the perpetrators were unaware that Bill had just sold it to another neighbor.</p>  <p>I don't have a tractor...yet...but I'm right partial to my convertible so...I won't be asking too many questions.&#160; After all, why would I need to know what's going on around here? I write fiction.</p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/TellingtheTruthandWritingFiction_118B9/022.jpg?fileId=1550705"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="268" alt="022" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/TellingtheTruthandWritingFiction_118B9/022_thumb.jpg?fileId=1550706" width="362" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <div class="wlWriterSmartContent" id="scid:0767317B-992E-4b12-91E0-4F059A8CECA8:dbc0eeb0-8897-40d7-9ce2-fcd303030bf9" style="padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-left: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-top: 0px">Technorati Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tags/writing%20life" rel="tag">writing life</a>,<a href="http://technorati.com/tags/country%20life" rel="tag">country life</a></div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1820342.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Cupcake Days</title><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 02:17:00 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/5/1/cupcake-days.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1801723</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/CupcakeDays_138F0/weirdsky_2.jpg?fileId=1533344"><img style="border-top-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px" height="297" alt="weirdsky" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/CupcakeDays_138F0/weirdsky_thumb.jpg?fileId=1533345" width="386" border="0" /></a></p>  <p>Some days are just gloomy. </p>  <p>I don't mind the rain.</p>  <p>Not even the clouds.</p>  <p>Perhaps it's the air- heavy and thick,</p>  <p>sad.</p>  <p>It makes me want to eat</p>  <p>top-heavy, grocery store cupcakes.</p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <div class="wlWriterSmartContent" id="scid:0767317B-992E-4b12-91E0-4F059A8CECA8:02988c6a-119d-4a37-80da-e2edc5dc2137" style="padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-left: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-top: 0px">Technorati Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tags/writing%20life" rel="tag">writing life</a></div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1801723.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The Elusive Coyote Stalks Greensboro...</title><category>Random</category><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:00:46 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/26/the-elusive-coyote-stalks-greensboro.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1790098</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span id="jline0hostname">The best stories are the ones that crop up unexpectedly.</span></p><p><span id="jline0hostname">Mert was sitting in the cabin&nbsp; Saturday morning assembling the new garden cart when she suddenly stopped what she was doing, looked up and said &quot;Did I tell you I saw a coyote walking through the subdivision a couple of days ago?&quot;</span></p><p><span id="jline0hostname">I figured she was kidding.&nbsp; It was early morning.&nbsp; I hadn't had enough coffee and Mert is bad to fun you .&nbsp; But she wasn't&nbsp; kidding.&nbsp; She was serious...See?<br /></span></p><p>&nbsp;<a title="076-2.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=076-2.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/076-2.jpg" /></a></p><p>Around here, we call that a &quot;Serious as a Heart Attack&quot; look.&nbsp; This, too...When Mert starts pointing her screwdriver, you know she's fixing to give you the straight skinny on the situation.<br /></p><p>&nbsp;<a title="080.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=080.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/080.jpg" /></a><a title="080.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=080.jpg"> </a></p><p>But, I thought, we live in a fairly large city.&nbsp; We live in the Southeast.&nbsp; Coyotes don't roam the streets of Greensboro.&nbsp; Do they?<br /></p><p>&quot;Mert,&quot; I said. &quot;What makes you think it was a coyote?&quot;</p><p>She shook her head, acknowledging that this did indeed sound incredible.&nbsp; &quot;I heard on the news they've been moving into North Carolina,&quot; she said.&nbsp; &quot;And I don't know, he just moved like a coyote.&quot;&nbsp;</p><p>It begs the question, don't you think?</p><p>&quot;Mert, how do coyotes move?&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;<a title="086.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=086.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/086.jpg" /></a></p><p>Mert's into it now...&quot;Well,&quot; she says, laughing.&nbsp; &quot;They just, you know, slink.&nbsp; Creepy, creepy, creeping along.&quot;</p><p>&quot;How was that again?&quot; I said, raising the camera and hitting the flash button for good measure.</p><p>&quot;You know!&nbsp; They just hunker down low and...Bookity, bookity, bookity...right on down the road!&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;<a title="087.jpg" href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=087.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/087.jpg" /></a></p><p>So there you have it.&nbsp; Coyotes in Greensboro.&nbsp; Film at 11.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><img src="file:///C:/Users/Nancy/Pictures/2008-04-19/071.JPG" alt="" /></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1790098.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Through a Window...</title><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 02:57:06 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/18/through-a-window.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1770022</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>My 99 year old lady said the secret of life is all in how you decide to approach it.&#160; &quot;You can have a good one or a bad one,&quot; she told me.&#160; &quot;It's up to you.&quot;</p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/window.jpg?fileId=1501381"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="367" alt="window" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/window_thumb.jpg?fileId=1501382" width="346" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/windowholga_2.jpg?fileId=1501383"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="416" alt="windowholga" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/windowholga_thumb.jpg?fileId=1501384" width="366" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>I suppose that's how it is with writing, too.&#160; </p>  <p>I don't believe this on bad days.&#160; On days when my life seems to fall to pieces, or the writing doesn't go as well as I might like, I decide it's all in the hands of the publishers or the agents or worse, Lady Luck.</p>  <p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/windowsepia_2.jpg?fileId=1501385"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="458" alt="windowsepia" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/windowsepia_thumb.jpg?fileId=1501386" width="369" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p>But again, that's just how I choose to look at it on a bad day.&#160; On good days, it's all up to me.&#160; If I write it, I tell myself, they will come.</p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/windoworton.jpg_2.jpg?fileId=1501387"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="452" alt="windoworton.jpg" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/ThroughaWindow_143F3/windoworton.jpg_thumb.jpg?fileId=1501388" width="354" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p>Sigh.&#160; We writers are such a neurotic group!</p>  <div class="wlWriterSmartContent" id="scid:0767317B-992E-4b12-91E0-4F059A8CECA8:c9748b45-a254-4a25-848f-644de7422590" style="padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-left: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-top: 0px">Technorati Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tags/writing" rel="tag">writing</a></div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1770022.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Works of Non-Fiction and Other Snags</title><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 03:34:29 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/16/works-of-non-fiction-and-other-snags.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1764952</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/WorksofNonFictionandOtherSnags_14A1A/076.jpg?fileId=1495749"><img style="border-top-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px" height="311" alt="076" src="http://www.nancybartholomew.com/resource/WindowsLiveWriter/WorksofNonFictionandOtherSnags_14A1A/076_thumb.jpg?fileId=1495750" width="466" border="0" /></a> </p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <p>Hadn't written one single word since my return from the cabin.&#160; Not. One. Word.</p>  <p>Needless to say, life has intervened.</p>  <p>But one inevitability has transpired-</p>  <p>I've done the taxes.</p>  <p>Some would consider this to be a major work of fiction.</p>  <p>Not I.</p>  <p>That's why I have a big box slap full of every single receipt from every single expenditure for the past year.&#160; That's why I sit amidst that mountain of paperwork every year trying to resurrect the past so TurboTax can then explain it to the IRS in terms they can understand.</p>  <p>No wonder I haven't written.&#160; Who could write with that kind of log jam in their head?</p>  <p>&#160;</p>  <div class="wlWriterSmartContent" id="scid:0767317B-992E-4b12-91E0-4F059A8CECA8:7b58f6a5-3e79-4e97-b801-7d564185fc45" style="padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-left: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-top: 0px">Technorati Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tags/death%20and%20taxes" rel="tag">death and taxes</a>,<a href="http://technorati.com/tags/writing" rel="tag">writing</a></div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1764952.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Day 8- Motherhood Moves Mountains</title><category>Life in the Country</category><category>Writing Life</category><category>Family Life With the Unnamed Ones</category><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 02:57:24 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/12/day-8-motherhood-moves-mountains.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1755940</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=065.jpg" title="065.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/065.jpg" /></a></p><p>Back in the day, before kids, before major responsibility came my way, I would squirrel away all my vacation days and take 2 long weeks off to &quot;Evaluate my Life.&quot;&nbsp; I had a 20 year plan.&nbsp; Really.&nbsp; With goals that could be measured by the month, the year, five years on up to 20 years.</p><p>I did not take into account the wisdom that comes with time and age.</p><p>This probably explains why I don't have a house in L.A (Lower Alabama a.k.a Panama City Beach, Florida) with a private landing strip for my own airplane.&nbsp; Thank God for that! </p><p>The first week of my 2 week retreat, I would spend frying myself to a cinder on the beach and drinking wine spritzers on the roof-top deck of my boss's beach house.&nbsp; But the second week signalled the time of introspection and reevaluation.&nbsp; I had goals for everything- my career, my personal life, my friendships.&nbsp; No stone was left unturned.</p><p>This week away, up here at the cabin, felt like a miniature version of those old escapes.&nbsp; I still have goals.&nbsp; I still reappraise them and evaluate my progress, just not with the rigidity of my youth.&nbsp; I was, however, able to hear the sound of my own inner voice again.&nbsp; I did write- almost 50 pages- of something new.&nbsp; </p><p>But I covet the old days of 2 week chunks.&nbsp; I love the bliss of this place. The thing that comes with time and age is the knowledge that one day, all too soon, I'll have a lot of time alone.&nbsp; My boys will be grown, with lives and families of their own.&nbsp; So the good stuff, the memories and treasures, for now they're at home, in town.&nbsp; </p><p>I'm big on being with my family in the moment, savoring every single bit of that experience and hoarding it for my motherhood retirement. &nbsp;</p><p>That, and the taxes MUST be done...&nbsp;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1755940.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Day 7- Writerly Life at the Cabin</title><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 00:49:20 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/11/day-7-writerly-life-at-the-cabin.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1753509</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>How can it be this is Day 7?&nbsp; </p><p>We've fallen into a routine, the dog and I.&nbsp; Well, in all honesty, the dog has a routine and I have become her bitch.&nbsp; She's up at dawn, chaffing at the bit for her walk.</p><p><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=017.jpg" title="017.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/017.jpg" />&nbsp;</a><br />She tried to get me to go walk at 1 a.m. 6 a.m. and again at 8:30.&nbsp; I figure it's because I slept with the bedroom window open and there were just too many tempting sounds and smells outside.</p><p>Lesson learned.&nbsp; We sleep with the windows shut tonight.</p><p>One of my characters threw the proverbial wrench into the plot by revealing a daughter I hadn't expected and a dead body I was looking for- but in a different place than I'd been thinking of.&nbsp; I'm not sure that doesn't mean cutting the 4 pages I finally wrote today.</p><p>Still, it's all good.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1753509.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Day 6 Writerly Life at my Little Cabin</title><category>Life in the Country</category><category>Writing Life</category><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 23:54:47 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/9/day-6-writerly-life-at-my-little-cabin.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1750402</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;As dawn breaks, so begins the day...<br /><br /><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=002-1.jpg" title="002-1.jpg">&nbsp;&nbsp;   </a><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=003.jpg" title="003.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/003.jpg" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;<a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=004-2.jpg" title="004-2.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/004-2.jpg" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;<a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=002-3.jpg" title="002-3.jpg">   </a></p><p><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=002-3.jpg" title="002-3.jpg"></a><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=002-3.jpg" title="002-3.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/002-3.jpg" /> </a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;<a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=012-1.jpg" title="012-1.jpg"> </a><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=094-1.jpg" title="094-1.jpg">   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/094-1.jpg" /> </a><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=073.jpg" title="073.jpg"> </a><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=012-1.jpg" title="012-1.jpg"> </a></p><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=002-1.jpg" title="002-1.jpg"></a>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1750402.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Writerly Life at the Little, Log Cabin Day 5</title><dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 01:20:21 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/2008/4/9/writerly-life-at-the-little-log-cabin-day-5.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">200670:1952947:1748103</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Here's a writer's prompt for you-</p><p><a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=067.jpg" title="067.jpg">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/067.jpg" /></a></p><p>Why was this coffeepot nailed to that fence post?&nbsp; And what about this one only a few yards away?</p><p>&nbsp;<a href="http://s31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/?action=view&current=032.jpg" title="032.jpg">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;   <img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c379/lavotini/032.jpg" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;Who did this and why? What does it all mean?<br /></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.nancybartholomew.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-1748103.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>